The Meaning Of Your Communication Is... |
... what the other person understands.
... and the response you get. |
In other words, it doesn't matter what you intended to say. The meaning of what you said is what the other person takes it to mean - how they interpret it.
And that will impact the response you get. (See the dance of communication).
This means you have to pay attention to the response of the other person, to check they "got" what you were trying to say. |
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| To help reduce misunderstandings, check out: |
Rapport
Pace & Lead
Non-Verbal Communication
Dance of Communication
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Want to know more? |
We recommend you book yourself on some NLP training. Whilst it's possible to self-study to learn NLP, the real benefits of Neuro-Linguistic Programming come from practising it with other students and getting good feedback from a qualified trainer.
That way you'll speed up learning your NLP skills and will find the tools easier to apply in all areas of your life.
Good quality NLP courses are available in most countries. You might want to check out our section on how to choose an NLP course.
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